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Dealing with the Stubborn Personality

A stubborn individual is usually one who has decided not to learn anything new. “I’ve been doing it this way for x number of years and I don’t see any reason to change now.” It is helpful to remember that when dealing with this discontented personality that this individual is afraid that you might want to change something that they are deeply attached to. This person may actually be expressing a fear that you are trying to be too controlling for them. Give them the extra time to adjust to changes and do your best not to surprise them. Never make sudden demands and make sure to give them some options and choices. Be casual, and calm in your approach with them. Let them give input on issues, rather than telling them what to do.

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Sunday, April 1, 2007 - Posted by | Relationships

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