Dealing with the Indecisive Personality
This type of person will take hours to make decisions and eventually will simply agree with prevailing opinion. This person is feeling insecure and doesn’t trust themselves. Give this person your trust. Let them know that you trust their abilities. This will give them the opportunity to trust themselves more. Try not to chastise or humiliate them, be as supportive as possible.
About Baba Erinle
Baba Erinle, consort to Yemonja, the Orisa who fishes in Yemonja’s waters, is expert at matter of people and relationships. Baba would like to share some helpful advice in dealing with difficult personalities.
Not everyone is a difficult person to deal with all the time. But from time to time, we all run into situations where we found ourselves acting out of our normal personality. Inevitably we find ourselves saying something like, “I don’t know what it is about that person but they seem to bring out the worst in me.” Many times we find ourselves responding to a difficult personality by developing our own difficult persona as a countermeasure. In essence, we stoop to their level. Suddenly a quiet and tranquil setting can erupt into an argument that can lead to shouting matches and potentially physical fights. Here are some suggestions Baba Erinle has for dealing with some difficult personality types.
