Dealing with the Bigheaded Personality
The bigheaded person has something to say about any and everything. This person is known to say something like, “me, me, me, me, it’s all about me.” This behavior is a form of greed and arrogance. These people have a problem listening to anyone but themselves. When dealing with the bigheaded person deal with facts and don’t fight with them on points. If you need to point out bad information, do it in the form of straightforward questions.
About Baba Erinle
Baba Erinle, consort to Yemonja, the Orisa who fishes in Yemonja’s waters, is expert at matter of people and relationships. Baba would like to share some helpful advice in dealing with difficult personalities.
Not everyone is a difficult person to deal with all the time. But from time to time, we all run into situations where we found ourselves acting out of our normal personality. Inevitably we find ourselves saying something like, “I don’t know what it is about that person but they seem to bring out the worst in me.” Many times we find ourselves responding to a difficult personality by developing our own difficult persona as a countermeasure. In essence, we stoop to their level. Suddenly a quiet and tranquil setting can erupt into an argument that can lead to shouting matches and potentially physical fights. Here are some suggestions Baba Erinle has for dealing with some difficult personality types.
